[3.14] gh-158886: Add INCREF/DECREF macros to stable_abi.toml (GH-158941) (GH-159148) (#159236)

[3.15] gh-158886: Add INCREF/DECREF macros to stable_abi.toml (GH-158941) (GH-159148)

* gh-148233: Group stable_abi.toml entries per Python version (GH-157990)

(cherry picked from commit 5bde996)

* gh-158886: Add INCREF/DECREF macros to stable_abi.toml (GH-158941)

* Add 7 INCREF/DECREF macros
* distinguish between 'const' and 'macro' in stable_abi.dat
  The file now has the 'kind' from the toml, not the ReST role.
* Fix kind of PY_VECTORCALL_ARGUMENTS_OFFSET
* Make it explicit that macros aren't part of the ABI
* Add is_static_inline_function to the TOML file (these are treated as macros in the docs)

Backport to 3.14: omit "abi3t_opaque".

(cherry picked from commit 20cb7fc)


(cherry picked from commit 295bb00)

Co-authored-by: Petr Viktorin <encukou@gmail.com>

Author: vstinner